It’s never anyone’s fault. The mind makes up blame-ful stories to satisfy the ego, while Destiny plays out in exactly the way it’s meant to.
Learning to love the self is a journey for the ego. All time-based selves are illusory mental constructs – only capable of giving and receiving a mental version of love – which always contains its opposite.
But when the whole expression is recognized as One, true Love is automatically shared with the Self that abides within all people, places and things.
To so recognize, simply watch the individual self as it tries to love. You are before that.
The only true Choice is whether to let awareness get swept away on the winds of thought, or to abide in the infinite and unchanging Truth right now.
Worldly choices are being made automatically through mental conditioning. Just let those choices be what they are, so that you are not distracted from the opportunity at hand.
What is Satsang?
Satsanga, Satsangam, Satsang (Sanskrit सत्सङ्ग sat = true, sanga = company) in Indian philosophy means (1) the company of the “highest truth,” (2) the company of a guru, or (3) company with an assembly of persons who listen to, talk about, and assimilate the truth. This typically involves listening to or reading scriptures, reflecting on, discussing and assimilating their meaning, meditating on the source of these words, and bringing their meaning into one’s daily life. Contemporary spiritual teachers in the West frequently come from the East but can come from any part of the world.
From Hope’s Perspective
Satsang, is the joining of minds with the intent to discover what beliefs are keeping the self limited to conditioned reality. Once those limitations are exposed, they are no longer limitations and the self can expand beyond what was previously thought possible.