Monthly Archives: May 2014

Fear of commitment

Fear of commitment makes one susceptible to being enslaved by the pursuit of worldly desires.


When it's recognized that you can experience suffering but not suffer directly, then suffering has value, then the seeds of suffering are burnt up through suffering instead of being propagated thereby.

God’s Will

God is omnipresent consciousness. Hir will is Your will. The ego's will is an imposter.

How to know the difference? You don't have to. Just pay attention to the subtle energy in your body, and notice what you're thinking...the mind…

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The Experience of humanity

There are people who walk this planet whose present purpose is to make suffering in the lives of other people, and especially the ones closest to them.

These people are immeasurably valuable, because they give their relations the experiences they…

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At times people may see you as disrespectful toward them even though you had no such intention.

It doesn't mean you've done anything wrong. It's a depiction of how your mental energy is being interpreted.

Unless you are taking their…

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Through your perception, the mind can learn what's necessary to give up resistance.

But while you're unwilling to be honest about what's being perceived, the mind learns to resist more, and that's just not very much fun.

Experience of Love

Can you sense that heart connection with someone you love?

Do you notice when your mind pursues certain thought, there is a deepening of that connection, and when other thoughts are pursued that connection is diminished?

Connection with loved ones…

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Sexual Attraction

When we speak of sexual attraction to more than one person, we are speaking of attraction to thought. It's been my experience and Tony's that when such thoughts cross our awareness, we can sense that following them does not resonate…

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Self Judgement

Experiencing someone in a negative way does not make anyone less spiritual, and it does not necessarily mean they’re holding judgment.

In fact, to deny one’s own experience in favor of spiritual concepts is self judgment, and in that judgment,…

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Commitment to Monogamy

Commitment to monogamous relationship isn't meant to be about time - it's only meant to last as long as both partners value this form of relating with one another.

If there's a "cheater" in the relationship, no problem. The one…

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