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No Such Thing as Loss

There is truly no such thing as loss. What the mind thinks to be loss is really redirection of awareness toward the fulfillment of life's only purpose - restoring the mind to innocence and joy.

If perceived loss is experienced…

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Friendship and Purpose

I know what it's like to live under the impression that friendships need to be like business deals...to live with a mind that's always scheming about how personal "connections" can serve the personal self.

In my experience, I was unable…

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Possessive Relationships

One thing that makes romantic partnership difficult is the idea of possessing one another.

There is nothing that can be possessed...and I've found that it takes both partners allowing the other to be as the are for intimacy to deepen…

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Sex and Faking it

Through my early experiences in dating and relationships, I learned to pretend like I was enjoying sex even when I was not. I tried being honest about what sensations I was feeling up until I was about 21 years old,…

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Emotions in Perspective

When I speak of love, compassion and appreciation, I'm not speaking of emotions.

These are words that describe the perspective from which the full range of emotions is meant to be experienced.

From said perspective, it's impossible to act out…

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Who is “Me”?

The unconscious mind thinks of Me as a person who has emotions, but I know that I have always been the observer of both. I also know that I am the same silent witness who's observing all persons from every…

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Punishment from God

It's a grave error to think that any happening of this world is punishment from God. God's punishment is experienced as present moment suffering... And even this is not really punishment at all.

Suffering is God's message that the mind…

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Peaceful Outcomes

While different personalities are praying/hoping/visualizing for different outcomes with respect to the lava flow near the town where I live....I can only imagine that whatever the outcome...everyone will be brought closer to sharing in this state of Peace that's not…

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Negative & Positive

There's no negative and positive. Everything is equal.

This must be understood deeply before one can discover ultimate peace and happiness. 

Death is an Illusion

There is no death. The idea that anyone can be put out of their misery is an illusion. The experience of pain and suffering without wisdom is what gives power to such an insane idea.

In fact, the majority of…

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