Self Acceptance Manifests Loving Relations
Seeing Only Love
EveryOne is pure Love and desirous of experiencing mutually Loving interaction with You. However, the mind can only create perception of ‘others’ according to the cumulative of that which has already been considered from your perspective and taken to be true.
In this way, you can’t really harm or offend anyOne; and you are in no real danger of being harmed or offended by anyOne. Nevertheless, individualized forms of awareness (people) may make themselves feel harmed or offended by their perception of you; and likewise you may feel harmed or offended by your perception of them.
However, every expression emerges from the One that is only Love, and what’s perceived is just a story made up in the mind.
To the extent you are afraid that your behavior may harm or offend anyOne (or that their behavior may harm or offend you), your pure essence (Love) is being distorted by mental concepts - which creates the feeling of confinement and emotional dis-ease - and is expressed in the material world as such.
The energetic connection between people who have shared relations is such that when thoughts of the ‘other’ cross your awareness, the emotional energy that you project is a force that not only affects your life experience, but it influences the ‘other’ to see their self from the same emotional point of view - especially as it relates to their interactions with you.
Make it your intent to recognize that, despite what you perceive, the ‘other’ can only Love you to the best of their ability according to what you are allowing; and that your only offering is Love. If you are uncomfortable or afraid of anyOne, make physical space, and as thoughts of them arise in your awareness, be receptive to seeing them in the mind’s eye as only Loving - whatever mental imagery feels Loving from your unique perspective.
In this way, you are using your energetic connection with individual forms to transcend layers of mind, while vibrationally inviting them to do the same - thus allowing for the experience of Loving relations to expand in your perception and in the perception of everyOne within your sphere of influence.
No Method
No method is needed, not even meditation.
Meditation is the practice of being physically situated in a quiet setting while releasing mental content as it arises. However, the crux of the matter is to give you the ability to consciously direct the thought waves of the mind HereNow - not to accumulate time spent practicing or to get that practice just right.
Heaven First
Heaven first and all else falls in line. All doing is either for a desired feeling or out of a desired feeling, and when doing is for a desired feeling, mental energy makes that feeling unavailable to you until the mind can rationalize it based on what's been done.
Moreover, nothing that's done can ever have a lasting effect on feeling, and whatever feeling is evoked by circumstance soon becomes its opposite. The way out of feeling in polarity is to allow the desired feeling irrespective of circumstance.
Present feeling depicts how proximate the vibrational frequency of thoughts come to allowing desired feeling. Awareness of this enables you to discern where thoughts are leading, and to determine which thoughts, if any, you are willing follow.
The conditions of Life are always ideal for your awareness to return to unity with all that you desire; and every circumstance that draws your awareness into separation is another opportunity for transformation and growth through the return to unity.
You seize every such opportunity when you remember your intent to allow all things as they are HereNow, and let your awareness of the breath gently absolve your grip on anything that contradicts your intent.
In this way, the desired feeling can be experienced now, and whatever is done from that feeling becomes an expression of Heaven for your world.
EveryOne is Love
EveryOne is your Lover at the level of source, and if you think you’re not getting what you want from them, it’s only because you’re allowing less Truth than you want through the doorway of your perception.
Divine Adjustment
Accident, mishap and physical illness are energetic adjustments, intended to guide energy of awareness toward alignment with the essence of infinite, all-encompassing Love (Truth).
The need for these forms of adjustment can be largely circumvented by the one who heeds their more subtle forms of inner guidance. (Note: Some extreme forms of adjustment may have been chosen by you as part of your life plan)
Specifically, guidance into alignment with Truth is always being offered in the form of feeling. However, mental conditioning is such that ego leads awareness to avoid uncomfortable or painful feeling with layers of mental occupation, until more extreme forms of guidance (accident, mishap, illness) are made inevitable.
Mental occupation is marked by activity that distracts your awareness from the feeling at hand. It could be in the form of thoughts about how things will be better when you are through what’s happening now, or the compulsion to engage in activity for the purpose of passing time.
When mental occupation is noticed, you can stop doing, and start breathing deeply, just being with the feeling and noticing the thoughts that come with that feeling.
In this way, you become aware of what thoughts the feeling is bringing up. From that awareness, you can decide whether uncomfortable or painful feeling thoughts are still necessary according to what meaning you give to them.
Do this with devotion to the Truth that every thought is born in delusion, and no meaning will be given to the thoughts as they come up. In this way, you dismantle the structure of fear that gives credence to the underlying belief, and that belief loses it’s magnetic affixation to your energy of awareness.
As more thoughts that provide structure for fearful belief move out of the way, you can see more and more clearly the direction in which your energy of awareness is being ‘asked’ to shift; and to the degree that you follow that subtle voice, there is no need for more extreme forms of guidance.
Of course, if you experience extreme suffering, it serves you to remember that you have received a Divine adjustment, and that there is a purpose for that suffering. Continue to breathe through the thoughts about pain, victimhood, blame and resentment (forms of fear) in the same manner, and seize this opportunity for deep healing to occur.
Being Loved
People in your experience may think you're special, not because you are special, but because they recognize what they like about their self within their perception of you, and that makes them feel special. There is only one being, and every self is a miraculous instance of that being - but no self special.
As soon as you start believing thoughts about having to be or do something special in order to deserve someone's attention and/or affection, your energy becomes manipulative, which creates difficulty in your relations as a result thereof.
Specifically, when you are in resistance to who you have become according to thought, your energy attracts 'others' who appear to want you to control your self - because your perception of them can only reflect your own state of mind. Most people take this appearance as true and constantly try to control their self in order to project whatever they think will garner affection from the 'other'.
When you are self blinded in this way, you cannot recognize the value in relating with those who would adore you as you are, because your energy is seeking the ones who match your own perceived need for self control.
While the self changes naturally through the evolution of consciousness, mental manipulation of self leads to inauthenticity, resentment and generally unhappy relations. Indeed, a controlled mental state keeps your energy affixed to a pattern of needing to be something else - which effectively prevents your personality from becoming more fully 'who you are', thus confining you to an unending cycle of discontent and conflicted relations.
Who you have become according to thought is precisely the part you are meant to play within the fabric of what is. By allowing your self to be natural, you not only attract people who reflect acceptance for your present state of being, but you allow the transcendence of your energy to lighter states of being.
You are infinitely loved and appreciated just as you are. Not everyOne will find this attractive, but to the extent you accept your present state, your experience is filled with those who reflect that acceptance to you.
All you can be is as you are Now, and when you perceive any pressure to change or control your self, that's your opportunity to observe what you’re thinking and feeling while recognizing the perfection of your beingness. In time, you will notice that you are more consistently in the presence of those who adore you, and that your energy is evolving beautifully through no effort on your part.
Unreasonable Pleasure
Your capacity for experiential pleasure is unlimited. To the extent you are open to the gifts that Life is presenting to you Now, you are allowing ecstasy beyond words to be expressed through your individualized being.
This is not to say that anyone should chase pleasurable experience. Indeed, all perception is patterned with feeling, and to the extent one tries to create pleasurable feeling, its opposite is activated within their energy of awareness - and addiction is manifested thereby.
Every thought that crosses your awareness is a demonstration of egoic gripping to pleasurable experience and resistance to painful experience. Your belief in the truth of thoughts is all that keeps tension between the polarities for you, and makes them real in your perception.
Pleasure, experienced in the present moment, immediately becomes an experience of memory when thoughts about sustaining, recreating or protecting the experience of pleasure are believed. Accordingly, pleasurable experience tends to be elusive and short lived.
Pure consciousness is the source of limitless pleasure from which all feeling is created according to thought. While superficial pleasure (the opposite of pain) is based on circumstance that evokes an elated feeling, the deeper, limitless pleasure is a resonant yet subtle rhythm which can be attuned to at any time, under any circumstance.
By noticing what is being thought and the feeling and breath pattern that come with the thought, then deepening the breath without judgment, you are allowing pure consciousness (the source of pleasure) to penetrate through mental patterns as they cloud your awareness. As pure consciousness is permitted access through the layers of mind, core belief in the separate self (which is the only barrier to one’s capacity for pleasure) is exposed.
In this way, consciousness is allowed to gently detach your energy of awareness from identification with thought, and the polarities of mind are diffused thereby. From a truly detached point of view, all thoughts and associated feelings are not only a pleasure to observe, but they provide the necessary direction whereby the movement of awareness may be given to allow new openings for greater depths of experiential pleasure.
The window of opportunity to allow conscious access to your thoughts and feelings is always in the present moment, whether you are thinking about past or future is irrelevant - all thought happens in the present. You deserve to experience levels of pleasure that surpass all mental reason and understanding, and focused attention can lead you there.
Enlightened
Enlightened is not something that you become, it’s who you already are. The experience of enlightenment is sustained conscious awareness of the Truth ‘behind’ the illusion, irrespective of circumstance within the illusion - which is basically the absence of self belief.
You are not separate from the Truth, but the beliefs you uphold for who you think you are have caused you to temporarily forget your true identity.
Because each individual accumulates unique life experiences which forms their present state of awareness, their path toward experiencing the enlightened state is not only unique, but in a constant state of flux - making it impossible to chart anyOne’s path. In fact, the more one endeavors to follow another person’s path, the more their sense of separation is reinforced - thus making their individual awakening less likely.
People with something to sell will insist that there’s something wrong about you, for which their method can make right. While nothing you do is ever wrong, all methods (even meditation) require mental effort - the antithesis to the enlightened state of being.
This is not to say that employing methods to invite enlightenment are not on your path - all methods used by you are on your path, but just like everything else in this world of form, methods are meant for creative play - not as a means to an end.
When you get ‘serious’ about meditation, yoga, observing your mental patterns, or any method, ego (energy of fear) enters through another window in your awareness to identify ‘who you think you are’ according to whatever method you believe to be important.
However, no matter the extent to which you are identified with thought, ‘who you really are’ is constantly leading you toward a more awake state of being. In this way, even if you are not seeking spirituality at all, the particulars of your life experience are your constant guide in the direction toward the enlightened experience.
Because awakening occurs in the absence of mental chatter, everyOne is gifted with perceptions that create minor to extreme mental shock and/or confusion - depending on their unique state of being and what degree of insight they are ready to receive.
Everything perceived is a unique message for the unique, individualized energy of awareness. While no perception needs to be analyzed unless one finds it entertaining to do so, every perception exposes self beliefs which can be further believed or simply dropped.
If one merely trades one belief for another, nothing has been resolved, but this is still along the path toward the enlightened state of being. Eventually circumstances will arise to help dissolve the newly formed belief; and if physical death comes before all beliefs are dissolved, their essence remains integrated within energy of awareness to be relived in the next birth/death cycle.
While methods are valuable to condition the mind into a preferred state of awareness, ultimately, stillness of mind (experience of nothingness) is the enlightened state of being, which ‘happens’ when every belief (including every method) has become irrelevant.









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