Fulfilling Relationship

I knew early on that being in a romantic relationship with a man was not going to fulfill me. Once I knew that, I became very attractive to men...

I have seen that the “normal” way women go about it…

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True to Love

I am willing to give up relationships again and again. I must be true only to the spirit that gives life to myself, lest I find myself trying to be what other people expect me to be instead.

Illusions of Self Worth

DCIM102GOPROMajor illusions around self worth have been coming up for me over the past few days. Mahalo to everyone who has given their self worth ideas over to me for reconciliation.

As some of you may know, I am hosting…

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Perception of Blame

I have no typical response to feeling blamed. I only allow myself to experience the feeling, and bear witness to whatever response arises through myself and through the others in my field of perception.

Through faith in miracles of healing…

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I cannot bring myself to make fault for anyone who lacks accountability in my perception. Indeed, that would make myself a servant to illusions of fault and thereby unaccountable to the state of innocence that I know to be true.

No Fault

In my view, nobody is ever at fault. That's why I'm invulnerable to victim mentality and abusiveness in my relationships.

I notice that when my mind is not preoccupied with who's at fault, who might be at fault, or trying…

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I don't need to try and evolve myself or anyone else...thank The Lord!

I've discovered that I remain unchanged while evolution of myself and everything else in the world happens on its own...

And when I'm not trying to rush…

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Attack on Joy

Recently a friend told me that I can be as joyful as I am for a very long time. She wasn’t giving me a compliment. She was trying to teach me that being joyful is great, but that it’s not…

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I don't need to defend myself when someone seems to be blaming me.

To me, blame is like an explosion of repressed judgment. It's a delusional yet innocent attempt to divert the mind's self attacks by attacking another self.


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Problems with Anger

Anger was a problem for me until I learned how anger could be directed asPhoto Jun 27, 6 12 30 AM inspiration in service to love. When I feel angry, I know it’s a sign that I’ve been following thoughts that have made me into a victim…

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