Relationships

Perception of Blame

I have no typical response to feeling blamed. I only allow myself to experience the feeling, and bear witness to whatever response arises through myself and through the others in my field of perception.

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Accountability

I cannot bring myself to make fault for anyone who lacks accountability in my perception. Indeed, that would make myself a servant to illusions of fault and thereby unaccountable to the state of innocence that I know to be true.

No Fault

In my view, nobody is ever at fault. That's why I'm invulnerable to victim mentality and abusiveness in my relationships.

I notice that when my mind is not preoccupied with who's at fault, who might be at fault, or trying…

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Evolution

I don't need to try and evolve myself or anyone else...thank The Lord!

I've discovered that I remain unchanged while evolution of myself and everything else in the world happens on its own...

And when I'm not trying to rush…

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Attack on Joy

Recently a friend told me that I can be as joyful as I am for a very long time. She wasn’t giving me a compliment. She was trying to teach me that being joyful is great, but that it’s not…

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Blame

I don't need to defend myself when someone seems to be blaming me.

To me, blame is like an explosion of repressed judgment. It's a delusional yet innocent attempt to divert the mind's self attacks by attacking another self.

My…

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Problems with Anger

Anger was a problem for me until I learned how anger could be directed asPhoto Jun 27, 6 12 30 AM inspiration in service to love. When I feel angry, I know it’s a sign that I’ve been following thoughts that have made me into a victim…

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Compassionate Connection

Every trigger is rich with gifts of clarity, insight and transformation.Photo Jun 27, 3 17 01 PM

I’m committed to staying present so that I can receive and share those gifts.

This past weekend, I attended a compassionate connections workshop. I didn’t know anything about the…

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Appreciation in Relationships

I've learned that nothing of this world can bring love to a relationship. Not gifts, not common interests, not children...and certainly not changing anyone's perception.

In my experience, love spontaneously shines through my relationships when I'm not pursuing thoughts that…

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Judgment Reflected through Relationship

Yesterday I was blessed with the perception that my partner can't appreciate my writing because it's not nearly as spiritual as Mooji's.

But I didn't need to let my perception affect my authentic expression. And I didn't need to harbor…

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