Relationships

Sick Feeling

People don't really make you sick...
That sick feeling is a Reflection of Belief that you are an autonomous creature with a will that's different from what is. 
Bless the messenger, and painful illusions will be resolved. 
Thank you! I love you!

Self Defense

If someone talks to you in a disrespectful or unloving manner, gratitude is there even in the midst of thoughts that want to defend yourself. 
There is no self to defend, plus defensiveness is a maker painful illusions. 
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Aligned with Love

Suffering mind moves to nit pick people, disparage them and see them being corrected or punished for their words and actions. 
But whatever is done in the mind is done to the sense of self only...indeed the body burden associated…

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Trying to Love

Trying to love is really another form of resistance to love. 
It's a built-in mechanism of mind that aims at keeping hidden the fact that there is nothing but love, and that which lacks love is only an illusion. 
Love…

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Trying to Love

Trying to love anyone is a futile endeavor. 
Its willingness to feel unloving/unloved that reveals what love is. 
Through recognition of what love is, everybody is already loved...and loving kindness is the natural result.

Embracing People’s Opinions

Not wanting to be affected by other people's opinions, the confused mind withholds love from anybody who seems to threaten its self identity. 
It relates from a desire to have its cravings fulfilled and leaves broken-hearted people in its tracks. …

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Joy is Meant to be Shared

The kind of joy that seems to disrespect other people's feelings is still Joy...in confusion Joy is used to make illusions instead of being shared. 
There are no other people. What's being disrespected is Joy itself...it's been called selfishness, and…

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Love is Freedom

Love is freedom. The kind of love that seeks to keep anybody from doing as they please is really fear disguised as love.

Fear turns what could be joyful relating into a game of suspicion, jealousy and disappointment. This is…

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Devoted Men

It's obvious what makes women attract experiences of men who treat them like objects. 

Anyone who pretends to want bodies to be other than they are, do other than they do, or have other than they have cannot help but…

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Healing Communication