Limitless creativity and abundance are inherent aspects of the Love that you are.
However, you place limits on these aspects while you seek to get something out of sharing this Love, and through your seeking to parlay your sharing into something greater for your self.
Shared Love is its own reward. Seek not for worldly reward, and you will discover that there is nothing which you do not already possess.
There is nothing right or wrong about how we choose to relate sexually with people. There are just our desires and whether we honor them or deny them.
When we do not honor our desire to be loved, adored and supported as the apple of our beloved's eye, we settle for something else. Then when we notice that our beloved needs to entertain sexual thoughts and fantasies about other people, the ego will act as if it shouldn't bother us and judge that we should try to "be open minded" about it.
But being open minded doesn't mean denying our truest desires. When we claim our worthiness to have our desires fulfilled - we can let go of whatever is moving toward a different goal.
It's not about whether other people behave harmoniously in our presence. It's about whether our inner disturbance is being triggered by their behavior.
This is always an opportunity to recognize that the other is reflecting aspects of self that we have disowned. Once we embrace the other to the point that we do not want them to be different than they are, the affected fragments of self return to their source - and the same offending behavior is no longer a trigger.