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Healing through Relationship

thewaytoTheWay — Mon, 14 May 2012 16:51:07 +0000

Emotion connects the individual consciousness between two people, and that is the basis of personal relationship. When we share an emotional connection (relationship) with someone, we affect their consciousness through the projection of our own thoughts. The deeper the emotional connection, the more power our thoughts have over the consciousness of the other person.

In this way, just thinking about a person is a very powerful form of communication. Whatever we are feeling while thinking about a person indicates what’s being communicated as a subtle, yet powerful invitation for that person to behave in a manner that activates the same feeling.

While every person has free will, and the ability to accept or decline any of the emotional invitations being launched into their field of awareness - emotional patterns work in the unconscious mind to sway consciousness without notice. Accordingly, only the one who is attentive to their thinking and feeling is able to resolve unhappy feelings before their behavior is affected by them.

By focusing through untruth in the form of personal dislike, disgust, pity or pain - our relations can move into a space of love and compassion. In this way, not only do we heal our relationships - but we energetically invite everybody involved toward total transformation and healing. This is the peaceful warrior way, and this is many times more powerful than the barrage of invitations that affect people toward dis-ease.

Breathe through any personal thoughts that feel bad, painful or uncomfortable with willingness to see those thoughts for what they are. By allowing your self to be open to feelings of appreciation and release, conflicted thoughts can let go of you so that your relationships and your world can fall into harmony.

You are the Light of your world - Let it shine!!

What Do You See?

thewaytoTheWay — Thu, 10 May 2012 19:36:42 +0000

"If you look out into the world and see beauty, it can only be because within yourself you see beauty. Likewise, if you look out into the world and see disgust, it can only be because within yourself there are elements you have not yet come to accept.

When the self is accepted fully, you will find it to be an impossibility to judge the exterior world." Tigmonk

Right

thewaytoTheWay — Tue, 08 May 2012 19:33:47 +0000

Everything is going right. It can't go any other way. Good and bad are just personal opinions, and have nothing to do with what's right.

Blame

thewaytoTheWay — Wed, 02 May 2012 19:29:13 +0000

Thoughts that cast blame are the smokescreen of ego - a program that makes you feel separate and righteous as you unwittingly create war within your self and for your world.

Against

thewaytoTheWay — Wed, 02 May 2012 19:28:29 +0000

To be against anyThing or anyOne is to be against God. Indeed, it's all God. Embrace what's making you feel 'against' or simply put your attention on what you can be 'for' - and thus allow Grace to deliver you back to wholeness.

Appreciation

thewaytoTheWay — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 19:25:55 +0000

Noticing that what I've been appreciating has appreciated. Everything about my man that I have found pleasing over the years has become more so!

So grateful for the experience of this Love affair. Aloha!!

18 Years!

thewaytoTheWay — Sun, 22 Apr 2012 19:25:03 +0000

Celebrating 18 years of loving it up with my big, strong, supportive, funny, sexy, studly man. And this magical journey continues - for how long, nobody knows - but as long as we're both into having a kick ass time - we Be chillin'!! Haha!! ♥

Your Job

thewaytoTheWay — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 19:23:29 +0000

It's not your job to please your spouse/lover/partner. The energy of trying to please anyOne only leads to feelings of frustration, resentment and loneliness.

It's through realizing how to be pleased, and allowing pleasure for your self within your relationship that the 'other' is pleased through no effort of your own. Simply Be Love - the rest takes care of itself. ♥

NoBody

thewaytoTheWay — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 19:22:41 +0000

NoBody can make you feel anything. Nothing is personal except the judgment you are holding for your self.

If your perception of someBody's expression makes you feel disrespected, attacked or wrong, it's a sure sign that you are projecting your personally held judgment onto them.

Simply acknowledge that judgment, notice how it makes you feel - and healing happens naturally. Blessings to All!!

Cherokee Wisdom

thewaytoTheWay — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 19:15:45 +0000

" A woman's highest calling is to lead a man to his soul, her lowest calling is to seduce, separating man from soul, and leave him aimlessly wandering. A man's highest calling is to protect woman, so she is free to walk the earth unharmed. A man's lowest calling is to ambush and force his way into the life of a woman." ~
Cherokee wisdom