People don't really make you sick...
That sick feeling is a Reflection of Belief that you are an autonomous creature with a will that's different from what is.
Bless the messenger, and painful illusions will be resolved.
Thank you! I love you!
Trying to love anyone is a futile endeavor.
Its willingness to feel unloving/unloved that reveals what love is.
Through recognition of what love is, everybody is already loved...and loving kindness is the natural result.