People come together for a single purpose, and when their interacting is not necessary, they are drawn apart.
Choiceless relating is the reality, but Ego makes stories about these movements, none of which are true...
...as if i chose to allow so and so into my life because...or i broke our relationship off because...or why don't they want to see me anymore?
The more ego is permitted to pretend like it can choose with whom i relate, the more unhappy interactions becomes necessary.
Of course, as ego chatter is seen as false, Self Love and Self Respect become the attractive forces in the psyche, and as such the apparent person is naturally drawn toward those who adore, appreciate and care for them.