As soon as the lips speak the words "I'm not attached" with belief that un-attachment is the desired state, the concept of being someone who suffers is consecrated in the mind.
Attachment and un-attachment are equal happenings that occur spontaneously for egos.
But YOU are not an ego and you've never been in a position to get attached or lose attachments.
Know your Self, and the function of ego can be enjoyed without making illusions of suffering.
Thank you for being before the play of concepts! I love you!!