The Way to the way

Releasing Shame

thewaytoTheWay — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 21:57:45 +0000

Shame is just an expression of belief, and when the underlying belief is recognized as untruth - there is nothing in your energy of awareness for shame to adhere to. Whether the shame you feel is for your self, or you are projecting shame onto others, the cause and the solution are the same.

Specifically, it's the nature of mind to believe in the wrongness of people who express behavior that's personally disliked, and to project those beliefs in the world along with feelings of shame. To put it succinctly - in order to experience or project shame, one must be tuned in to a belief that certain behavior makes a person wrong.

The beauty of the relationship between belief and feeling is that you always have the choice to again buy into your personal identification with them; or you can choose to observe what you believe to be wrong and relax your mental grip on those beliefs.

Remember that you don't have to believe anything can make a person wrong in order to choose Love in this moment. Indeed, to the extent your awareness is focused through belief that something can make a person wrong, you are choosing shame.

In this regard, now is always the 'right' time to forgive thoughts that evoke the feeling of shame. Let those thoughts dance in your awareness as they naturally will, and experience the sensation they create in your body while remembering your intent to observe and relax the beliefs upon which those thoughts/feelings are founded.

If you get caught up again in a story of shame, that's ok. Simply forgive the diversion and return to relaxed observation when you are ready.

There is no race to resolve shame from the energy of your vibration, and as long as the idea of 'wrongness' is being held in human energy of awareness, you will be given limitless opportunities in this regard.

You are appreciated! Not only is your experience of shame an opportunity to improve your personal life experience by raising your energetic frequency - but when you seize that opportunity, you uplift the energetic frequency of all Life. Mahalo!!

No Neutrality

thewaytoTheWay — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 19:27:22 +0000

NoOne can remain neutral. Whatever you focus upon is fueled by your attention - thus causing more of it to manifest in your world.

Not understanding this simple third dimensional law, the delusional human being spends a substantial amount of available Life Force Energy creating more of what is not wanted. For example, the one wanting peace tends to oppose war; the one wanting love tends to condemn hate; the one wanting abundance tends to speak out against anyone they considered 'the rich'; the one wanting a healthier Earth tends to demean polluters; and the one wanting freedom tends to stand against government.

However, while the mind has the masses running around unwittingly creating more of the same by acting like something in the world needs to change - You alone hold the transformative power of the peaceful warrior within your consciousness.

Specifically, the peaceful warrior allows anything (blame, resentment, need for control, etc.) that does not glorify spirit to be released - thus making space for energy of awareness to be moved toward that which their individualized consciousness considers lovely, beautiful and virtuous. In this way, the 'not enough' mindset/reality is being transcended.

All that matters Now is this moment, and this is no time to be concerned about what has gone before, what appears to be happening now or what anyOne else is doing. Simply surrender your concerns to the aspect of you that is beyond the mind, and command Peace/Love/Freedom/Abundance for your world in this very moment in time.

The Gift of Transcendence

thewaytoTheWay — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 16:20:47 +0000

While you have no power over anyOne's perception of your individualized self, you Alone decide whether to give those perceptions creative power in your world. As long as you are defining your self according to other people's perceptions and expectations, you are living through the same mental conditioning that has formed your self up to this point in time - which may be effectively suppressing your own spirit/heart/higher truth.

When you perceive someOne saying or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable or disturbing emotion, you are essentially being offered a gift. You may accept said gift by allowing that person complete freedom and space to perceive your self in any way they choose.

Specifically, the discomfort or disturbance you feel is an indication that you believe something that’s misaligned with your spirit/heart/higher truth, and the person who ‘made you feel that way’ has very generously brought those beliefs to light for you. Said misalignment manifests in your experience as emotional dis-ease, your perception of which immediately causes your thought structure to project a vibratory signal for its opposite (the cure).

However, to the extent you are taking thought patterns that compulsively stream through your awareness in response to your perception of people's opinions to be true, your thought structure continues to move toward dis-ease. Conversely, when you consciously recognize and release compulsive mind stream, your thought structure opens to awareness of what self beliefs are actually holding you back.

Through your willingness to allow the ‘other’ to be as they are, consciousness can penetrate through the illusion of separate self and recognize what gifts of self reflection are being offered. In this way, concepts of self are transcended - which leads to more harmonious relations with the ‘others’ in your world.

Set the 'other' free to create any perception they choose, and in turn you will be set free from mental habits that no longer serve your purpose - thus allowing the real You to determine your expression in this life-time.

Holiday Light

thewaytoTheWay — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 17:34:37 +0000

What you think people think about you is a mental projection that keeps your perception in line with the beliefs you are holding.

However, when you accept responsibility for all that you perceive, consciousness is allowed to penetrate the facade of there being a separate 'other - thus exposing whatever beliefs are being reflected through the people that appear to be in your outer world.

From there, you're invited to celebrate what's been exposed for having protected the self image you created out of thought; and to the extent those beliefs are no longer 'necessary' (re-created by outward projection), they will be released from your energy of awareness.

In this way, new openings are created whereby concepts that transcend self limiting mindsets are made available to your perception.

Practice perfectly, meaning be willing to see what's being masked by your outward projections in this moment in time, and Light up your world this holiday season.

Hau’oli Lanui! (Happy Holidays!)

Raw Papaya Custard

thewaytoTheWay — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 05:19:55 +0000

This recipe is super simple to make, tastes awesome, sets up beautifully and is chock full of healthy fat, nutrients and enzymes. Serves 12

4 average size papayas, seeded and scooped out of the skin
12 fertile eggs (preferable unrefrigerated)
3/4 cups raw (preferably cultured) butter, thawed on counter until soft
1/2 cup unheated honey

Add the above ingredients one by one to a food processor, processing until smooth after each addition. Pour into one large or several small ceramic or glass bowl and refrigerate for about 2 hours. Enjoy!!

Let Them Be!

thewaytoTheWay — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 20:08:07 +0000

Let them be, and you will be set free. You cannot control the experience of anyOne, so it's safe to let go of your personality's self righteous ideas about how their life should unfold.

Worry or concern for another person is a form of delusion that is born out of emotional (conditional) love, and which keeps energy of awareness bound to the experience of dis-ease. This false love not only feels conflicted when it manifests as worry, but taking worrisome thoughts to be true is like 'asking' for their essence to manifest in your experience.

The only moment that counts is Now, and by seeing worry for what it represents, you can allow its dissolution Now; and thus command the unfolding of your world from a perspective of liberation and wellbeing.

You Don’t Know Better

thewaytoTheWay — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 17:44:09 +0000

You don't really know better than anyOne. Your world is only a reflection of your thought created self, and your worldly wisdom is nothing but a collection of self judgment that you have picked up along your unique journey through this and previous lifetimes.

The need to influence or control the actions of any person 'for their own good' is the mind's way of projecting repressed pain around your perceived past failures and worries about your impending failures onto the 'others' in your world. By directing your energy toward the betterment of any person, layers are added to the mental smokescreen that keeps you 'safe' from that which ego (energy of fear) has deemed too painful for you to observe.

When the urge to control or influence anyOne comes up, and you choose instead to allow space for the One to experience another perspective without interference, you open the mind to receive healing for the emotional pain that's been keeping your energy bound to the endless cycle of perceived failure and repression/control.

You help the other (who is really you) immensely when you release your personal ideas about what they 'should' and 'shouldn't do, because this allows acceptance to rise through your personality and become your dominant expression. Acceptance eases the ego's grip on fearful concepts, so that patterns of pain that lurk in the recesses of mind may be observed by You, and thus dissolved.

As your personal pain dissolves, freedom prevails in your world, and the other perspectives within your field of influence are invited to evolve accordingly.

Personality is the Resistance

thewaytoTheWay — Sun, 11 Dec 2011 20:10:35 +0000

Your personality is the resistance…the necessary resistance for expansion of this big idea called Life. But this does NOT mean that you have to suffer.

As soon as you feel emotional tension, it’s an indication of belief in the importance of personal will in making your personality’s ideas manifest in the material world.

If you choose to let go of how you think it should be, right then and there your resistance (mental interference) is gone, and the creative force is allowed to bring about the idea that sprang from your personality without a detour into personal suffering.

Beautiful People

thewaytoTheWay — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 18:52:18 +0000

People are to you however you are making them out to be. They are expressions of energy which you interpret according to your personal ideas (self image).

So, instead of asking why someone acts the way they do, try this inquiry instead: how does seeing a person in this light build upon my self image?

This inquiry creates an opening in your thought structure so that you may see beyond the cloud of delusion, and discover what's been keeping you from being the love that you are.

As you make such discoveries, rejoice! And remember that it's okay to release whatever ideas of self are no longer necessary. As your personal ideas drop away, the beauty within all people becomes more apparent - which manifests as more harmony in your personal relations.

Fighting for Love

thewaytoTheWay — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 19:34:50 +0000

Love is not something to fight for. Love is simple and free - You always receive Love to the extent you offer Love.

Fighting for love is a tool of ego (energy of fear) – it may result in what appear to be short term ‘wins’ – but in the long run it’s a recipe for intense personal suffering.

Don’t worry about who’s going to Love you. Let Love flow generously from you without personal expectations, and Love will surprise and delight you in ways that are inconceivable to the gripping mind.