Love is not something to fight for. Love is simple and free – You always receive Love to the extent you offer Love.
Fighting for love is a tool of ego (energy of fear) – it may result in what appear to be short term ‘wins’ – but in the long run it’s a recipe for intense personal suffering.
Don’t worry about who’s going to Love you. Let Love flow generously from you without personal expectations, and Love will surprise and delight you in ways that are inconceivable to the gripping mind.