Who says we need to miss people when they move away, die or stop communicating with us for whatever reason? Missing is just energy spent denying the perfection of this moment.
There’s nothing wrong with such denial, it’s just something to be honest about when we’re ready. Such honesty entails allowing the feeling to be as it is without buying into the story that the personal loss is the real reason for the feeling.
In this way, acceptance is allowed to rush in, and we can appreciate the gift of the personal experience in whatever form it is being presented right now.
Our relationship with others is the energy we project in response to our perception of them. We are always in relationship with the people we experience. Even when we are not communicating with them for whatever reason, the energy we project about them is in relationship to our perception of them.
In this way, missing anyone is a projection that our relationship with another person is not fulfilling in the present moment. And when one part of reality is not fulfilling, we make ourselves out to be incomplete- and Life responds with more ‘proof’ that we need something external to feel complete.
May we all enjoy our memories of other people, and allow that joy to be our fulfillment in this moment – the only moment that exists.