You don’t have anything. Even desires, opinions, tendencies and preferences are appearing in front of you.
They aren’t personal because there is no person. There’s just a collection of thoughts about a personal self that does not exist beyond such thoughts.
It’s your obedience to thoughts like ‘I have this preference’ or ‘I don’t have that tendency’ that keeps you identified as a personality that can suffer while the totality that you are remains unrealized.
Give it all up, and the apparent power of this world can have no sway over you.