People are projections of subtle energies. We attract and create people in our world according to the thoughts we give attention toward.
To the extent we give attention to thoughts that say we do wrong or have done wrong, we attract people who will show us that they are hurt by our wrongdoings. In response to their pain we are habitually drawn to either follow thoughts that make us out to be bad, stupid or unworthy; or we play innocent or righteous by defending our actions.
But when we recognize that all actions are compulsive, and the only choice we really have is in our response to what’s here now – our condemning and defensive thoughts cannot adhere to anything in our consciousness.
In this way, compassion rushes in as a loving support through all of the emotional energy being brought up in self and the other – as we simultaneously begin attracting people of a lighter vibration into our experience.
When we find ourselves in patterns of pain, it’s helpful to ask ourselves (repeatedly if necessary) whether we’re willing to let go of the story we’re telling, and just be Love in this moment right now.
The letting go happens on it’s own through our willingness to face the feelings being dredged up and our intent to stop telling the same old story. Attention directed in this manner allows a lightening up in our personal projections – which automatically attracts more people who support and appreciate the Light that we are.