Many people think they need to separate their self from other people. The paradox is that belief in separation is the underlying cause of all dis-ease. It creates the mind conceived need for protection – and commands the Universe to show them physical ‘evidence’ in order to prove their ‘truth’ that protection is necessary.
The experience of being abused is created and experienced by the one whose beliefs contradict their true desires – the only thing that can hold the self apart from experiencing the joy/peace/love/abundance that is the essence of I AM.
The belief that anything outside of one’s own ignorance could be responsible for their dis-ease makes it true for their self, and their illusion/reality is showing them all the ‘evidence’ that their beliefs are True.
In reality, every person imaginable exists, but one can only experience the people and behavior that resonate with the vibrational offering of their own thought. There is nothing to separate from – it is all an illusion created by the One that is You. Look without judgment into the eyes of the ‘other’, and remember that they are only a reflection of your self.