You are not important, and noOne needs anything from you. When you are denying Love (or only allowing conditional love), the ‘others’ in your experience appear to need you to make them whole, but when Love is allowed the others show up as being enough and having enough.
No matter what you do to fix things for the One you believe to be lacking, you can only create the perception of more ‘need’ from this state of mind.
When you perceive someOne to be in need, remember that someOne is You, and everything is going right. Love every part you play in this Divine illusion, and how you Be can only allow more Love to be woven into the fabric of ‘what is’.