Sexual Attraction

When we speak of sexual attraction to more than one person, we are speaking of attraction to thought. It’s been my experience and Tony’s that when such thoughts cross our awareness, we can sense that following them does not resonate with the heart’s present guidance, so they simply dissipate without any effort on our part.

We are both open to feeling something different, it just hasn’t happened since we met 2 decades ago.

Being Loved

People in your experience may think you’re special, not because you are special, but because they recognize what they like about their self within their perception of you, and that makes them feel special. There is only one being, and every self is a miraculous instance of that being – but no self special.

As soon as you start believing thoughts about having to be or do something special in order to deserve someone’s attention and/or affection, your energy becomes manipulative, which creates difficulty in your relations as a result thereof.

Specifically, when you are in resistance to who you have become according to thought, your energy attracts ‘others’ who appear to want you to control your self – because your perception of them can only reflect your own state of mind.   Most people take this appearance as true and constantly try to control their self in order to project whatever they think will garner affection from the ‘other’.

When you are self blinded in this way, you cannot recognize the value in relating with those who would adore you as you are, because your energy is seeking the ones who match your own perceived need for self control.

While the self changes naturally through the evolution of consciousness, mental manipulation of self leads to inauthenticity, resentment and generally unhappy relations. Indeed, a controlled mental state keeps your energy affixed to a pattern of needing to be something else – which effectively prevents your personality from becoming more fully ‘who you are’, thus confining you to an unending cycle of discontent and conflicted relations.

Who you have become according to thought is precisely the part you are meant to play within the fabric of what is. By allowing your self to be natural, you not only attract people who reflect acceptance for your present state of being, but you allow the transcendence of your energy to lighter states of being.

You are infinitely loved and appreciated just as you are. Not everyOne will find this attractive, but to the extent you accept your present state, your experience is filled with those who reflect that acceptance to you.

All you can be is as you are Now, and when you perceive any pressure to change or control your self, that’s your opportunity to observe what you’re thinking and feeling while recognizing the perfection of your beingness. In time, you will notice that you are more consistently in the presence of those who adore you, and that your energy is evolving beautifully through no effort on your part.

Seeking Christ

Christ cannot be recognized by anyone who does not have the “eyes to see”. If we expect the only Christ to have been crucified thousands of years ago, not to return until sometime in the future, we do not seek and cannot recognize the living Christ that is here now.

When we develop our inner vision, we can recognize the Christ in all people. That recognition is an energetic summoning of the inner Light to penetrate the layers of mind, memory and emotion – and live through the physical form.

In this way, we promote our collective evolution toward the peaceful reality that is our birthright.

We are so intricately connected to one another that we cannot be separate except through mental perception. We are also attracting everything that we experience.

When our thoughts only regurgitate what we already know of humanity, our energy serves to reinforce the patterns of mind that are already being followed.

If we do not deliberately access our creativity by offering thought outside of what’s rational, we are creating by default. Most people are creating more of what we don’t want because our thoughts are predominantly focused on the aspects of humanity that feel less than Joyful.

By minding our minds, we move toward our center, and from a more centered vantage point we project – and thereby create gloriously. Be open to experience the Divine through the physical form, and create Heaven in the only time-space it can ever exist – Here and Now.

Curing a Bi-Polar Life

Our reality consists of polarities – everything contains its opposite. But we are more than mere passengers on the ride of life. Whether we know it or not, we are creating our reality with every thought.

When we pay attention to things in our lives that provoke extreme emotion, we attract more extremes in our lives. By habitually shifting our attention to those things in our lives that evoke joy, and toward our perspectives for creating more joy, we can control our emotions and thereby diffuse the extremes in our minds and in our lives.