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Abundance of the Heart

"Out of the abundance 10689963_10201738441781710_2764218589714651217_nof the heart, the mouth speaks" Jesus the Christ

This is plainly obvious for me, and that's why I can't hold anything against those who speak words of harm, punishment and destruction toward myself and other…

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Getting Kids to Behave

I stopped wanting love and respect from my children, because I recognized that what I really want is to experience my children exactly as they are.

Once I was willing and eager to purposefully go through every suffering that arose…

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No Fault

In my view, nobody is ever at fault. That's why I'm invulnerable to victim mentality and abusiveness in my relationships.

I notice that when my mind is not preoccupied with who's at fault, who might be at fault, or trying…

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Disrespectful Kids & Teens

When it comes to kids and teenagers, I've observed that their disrespectful behavior is a cry for acceptance.DCIM102GOPRO

Parents are generally conditioned to hold shame for their children when they do things the parent thinks they shouldn't, and in most…

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Kids and Respect – Part 2

Respect. It’s what parents think they want from their kids.

 

So, one might ask, “how do I get respect from my kids without demanding it”? But even that is nothing more than an attempt to gain a survival skill…

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Kids and Respect – Part 1

As soon as a child is able to exercise natural free will, they are trained by parents, family members, teachers and even random people to “show” respect--to whomever. On the surface that seems innocent, even just, however peeling away the…

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Freedom of Choice

It's simply insane - the belief that the Child needs discipline, pressure and/or manipulation in order to be deserving of love. What's really desired for the child is Freedom - the same Freedom our Free Spirit desires for ourselves -…

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Discipline

When we make other people follow our rules for living, we create suffering for everyone. NoBody, not children, employees, countries, the self etc. deserve to have discipline imposed upon them.

Commitment to live the virtues of Love is born out…

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Parents Frustrated with Wiggly Kids

Here's a response I wrote in response to a reporter's questions at SheKnow.com.

What do you know about a parent's frustration with wiggly kids? Parents who are frustrated with wiggly kids hold a belief that kids should not wiggle…

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Let Them Be

The hardest part is letting go. Releasing control over our children gives them the power to be just who they are, and the energy you save for yourself keeps you closer to who you are.

This combination of consciousness will…

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