Forgive the Attacker

When we are able to unconditionally forgive our attackers, there will be no more attacks.

For every attacker comes from within. The external attack is only a reflection of lack of forgiveness aka fear.

This isn’t about trying to control what’s going to happen – that only leads to more suffering.

We all hold memories of being attacked in different forms, whether physically, verbally, financially, etc. With those memories we automatically attach judgment that something went wrong, fear that it will happen again, and a need to keep it from happening again.

This way of being projects an energetic charge from aura that powerfully attracts more of what we are not wanting for ourselves and for the world – no matter what measures we take in the physical. Thus, the key to creating a more loving environment is in diffusing the energetic charge within our own field of awareness – ie: forgiveness.

How to forgive? Feel into the energetic charge that arises in our bodies when we think about the attacker, focus on breathing without pausing, and let the corresponding thoughts rise and fall on their own.

Peaceful You Are

The need to stop anyone’s behavior or wait for their behavior to change is based on the false idea that Peace can be created through control and suppression.

Notice where you try to manipulate a Peaceful experience by getting people or things to change, or by believing thoughts that you will be more Peaceful in the future when people or things are different.

That’s it – just notice. Because you are Peace – this noticing exposes the silliness of the endeavor to make Peace or wait for Peace – and this insane tendency resolves on its own.

Being Loved

People in your experience may think you’re special, not because you are special, but because they recognize what they like about their self within their perception of you, and that makes them feel special. There is only one being, and every self is a miraculous instance of that being – but no self special.

As soon as you start believing thoughts about having to be or do something special in order to deserve someone’s attention and/or affection, your energy becomes manipulative, which creates difficulty in your relations as a result thereof.

Specifically, when you are in resistance to who you have become according to thought, your energy attracts ‘others’ who appear to want you to control your self – because your perception of them can only reflect your own state of mind.   Most people take this appearance as true and constantly try to control their self in order to project whatever they think will garner affection from the ‘other’.

When you are self blinded in this way, you cannot recognize the value in relating with those who would adore you as you are, because your energy is seeking the ones who match your own perceived need for self control.

While the self changes naturally through the evolution of consciousness, mental manipulation of self leads to inauthenticity, resentment and generally unhappy relations. Indeed, a controlled mental state keeps your energy affixed to a pattern of needing to be something else – which effectively prevents your personality from becoming more fully ‘who you are’, thus confining you to an unending cycle of discontent and conflicted relations.

Who you have become according to thought is precisely the part you are meant to play within the fabric of what is. By allowing your self to be natural, you not only attract people who reflect acceptance for your present state of being, but you allow the transcendence of your energy to lighter states of being.

You are infinitely loved and appreciated just as you are. Not everyOne will find this attractive, but to the extent you accept your present state, your experience is filled with those who reflect that acceptance to you.

All you can be is as you are Now, and when you perceive any pressure to change or control your self, that’s your opportunity to observe what you’re thinking and feeling while recognizing the perfection of your beingness. In time, you will notice that you are more consistently in the presence of those who adore you, and that your energy is evolving beautifully through no effort on your part.

You Are Never Wrong

You have never been wrong, and there is no reality to what you call a mistake. You may be aware that there are some things in your memory that you would like to have done differently, but judging your self as wrong for having done them can only create suffering for you.

Because the subconscious mind is programmed to seek pleasure and avoid pain, what you have deemed wrong about your self must be repressed in order for you to feel happy. Specifically, in response to an impression of judgment that causes you emotional pain, the mind creates a division using calculation and reason to protect you from feeling the emotion associated with that judgment.

In this regard, it benefits you to be present within every emotion, and to notice the thoughts associated with your emotions. Doing this with the remembrance that your thoughts are not your own (and that you choose whether to believe them) will allow you to transcend the trappings of victimhood and experience more pleasurable states of mind (“realities”).

You actually have no control over your behavior as it is compulsive based on all thought that has gone before. If you would like to behave differently than you did in memory, you have only to Be different by shifting your energy of awareness to a lighter (less judgmental) vibration.

Judging and then trying to control your self only creates internal struggle and further frustration every time the repressed aspect of self re-emerges.  But appreciation for all things exactly as they have been created (including all that you have ever done) allows your self to easily learn necessary lessons of Love, and enjoy this lifetime more deeply.

You are never wrong, and you are never right either – You are simply Divine.

* Note: Ego is the master of illusion – it can hold many of your judgments and beliefs hidden beneath emotional layers that can divert your from the truth even as you are sincerely seeking it. If you are inspired to dissolve the trappings of mind, I encourage you to find someone willing and able to be your mirror for the purpose presenting you with what you are not seeing on your own. If you are interested in engaging my service for this purpose, please contact me via email.

Control is Illusion

We don’t need government run society or taxes of any kind. It’s our own dependency on the system that keeps it growing.

The current government is a manifestation our collective beliefs as a society. As long as we are dependent and afraid of ourselves and our fellow humans, there will be a system to rule us.

Beliefs that we are limited attract the circumstances, people and events that prove those beliefs to be accurate. So long as we believe that things like quality roads and education can only come from a system of government and taxation, our consciousness continues to perpetuate things like war and tyranny.

The way to real freedom is to free our minds from the habits and conditioning that we have been trained to follow, and live as the true Being we were born to express in this life. One by one, as we awaken from the slumber of habits, we are experiencing our greatness and turning our world in the direction of health, harmony and abundance for all.

Of course when I say ‘we’, I mean the one that is me.

Let Them Be

The hardest part is letting go. Releasing control over our children gives them the power to be just who they are, and the energy you save for yourself keeps you closer to who you are.

This combination of consciousness will undoubtedly cause you to Love each other more.