If someone talks to you in a disrespectful or unloving manner, gratitude is there even in the midst of thoughts that want to defend yourself.
There is no self to defend, plus defensiveness is a maker painful illusions.
Go with gratitude, and pain gets healed.
Blessings upon your magical sight. I love you!
Notice what sensations arise when you think another person is pathetic …these sensations are the first manifestation of that same potential being strengthened within yourself.
Emotion connects the individual consciousness between two people, and that is the basis of personal relationship. When we share an emotional connection (relationship) with someone, we affect their consciousness through the projection of our own thoughts. The deeper the emotional connection, the more power our thoughts have over the consciousness of the other person.
In this way, just thinking about a person is a very powerful form of communication. Whatever we are feeling while thinking about a person indicates what’s being communicated as a subtle, yet powerful invitation for that person to behave in a manner that activates the same feeling.
While every person has free will, and the ability to accept or decline any of the emotional invitations being launched into their field of awareness – emotional patterns work in the unconscious mind to sway consciousness without notice. Accordingly, only the one who is attentive to their thinking and feeling is able to resolve unhappy feelings before their behavior is affected by them.
By focusing through untruth in the form of personal dislike, disgust, pity or pain – our relations can move into a space of love and compassion. In this way, not only do we heal our relationships – but we energetically invite everybody involved toward total transformation and healing. This is the peaceful warrior way, and this is many times more powerful than the barrage of invitations that affect people toward dis-ease.
Breathe through any personal thoughts that feel bad, painful or uncomfortable with willingness to see those thoughts for what they are. By allowing your self to be open to feelings of appreciation and release, conflicted thoughts can let go of you so that your relationships and your world can fall into harmony.
You are the Light of your world – Let it shine!!
The energy of trying to make relationships work creates conflicted relations with resentful separations, while enjoying the others’ company without attachment to outcome creates harmonious relations with loving transitions.