Relationships

Space of Emptiness

Conflict between people arises from a perception of an individual self that's separate from others.

But truly, there is no individual self and there are no others.

There is only imagination arising in the space of emptiness.

The only thing…

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Choiceless Relating

People come together for a single purpose, and when their interacting is not necessary, they are drawn apart.

Choiceless relating is the reality, but Ego makes stories about these movements, none of which are true...

...as if i chose to allow…

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Personal Perceptions

The way you seem to feel about people is only a projection of what the thoughts that occupy your mind feel like. 
Every perception of people is manifested by consciousness/God for the sole purpose of delivering your mind back to…

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Not Meant to Be

No one has a choice in whether they want to spend time with you. 
If they don't want to be with you, they are not meant to be with you. 
Now it's your choice to either protect your mind from…

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Sight of what’s Real

Whether people take me to be a goddess or an asshole makes no difference to me. It's all thought. 
What matters to me is that my mind never loses sight of the formless radiance that shines through all people and…

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False Curiosity

False curiosity is expressed as a personal attack in the form of a question. 
Example: "Why do you always need to be right?"
You do not have to answer these so called "questions". A conclusion has already been made in…

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Mean People

Confusion and fear is what makes people talk mean to you and point out deficiencies that they think they see in you. 
When a mind takes personhood to be a reality, the affected person can't help but take things personal…

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Aligned with Love

Suffering mind moves to nit pick people, disparage them and see them being corrected or punished for their words and actions. 
But whatever is done in the mind is done to the sense of self only...indeed the body burden associated…

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Embracing People’s Opinions

Not wanting to be affected by other people's opinions, the confused mind withholds love from anybody who seems to threaten its self identity. 
It relates from a desire to have its cravings fulfilled and leaves broken-hearted people in its tracks. …

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Devoted Men

It's obvious what makes women attract experiences of men who treat them like objects. 

Anyone who pretends to want bodies to be other than they are, do other than they do, or have other than they have cannot help but…

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