Women who think they are in the wrong when they experience mistreatment from their partner unwittingly set themselves up for further mistreatment. And the same goes for women who think the man is in the wrong.
Nobody is wrong. It’s just time to acknowledge whether that kind of experience aligns with your vision of love or not.
AND..If you’re truly honest about this, the fear of losing the relationship dissolves, as standing up for what you value in a relationship becomes as natural as breathing.